Happy Accidents

"I just want my day to be perfect."

We hear our brides say this all the time. But what does 'perfect' really mean? While in an ideal world we could get everything right every time, something usually goes wrong at every wedding. Our job at Soiree is to make sure the bride and groom remain happy and oblivious until they return from their honeymoon.

For instance, we've had multiple limos not show, cakes delivered that are the wrong design, the improper number of tables set for dinner, flowers in the completely wrong color, missing bouquets, had caterers that run out of plates/silverware/glasses/etc, and even bridesmaids getting 'sick' during the ceremony or passing out.

I was reading a cute blog posting from Mackenzie over at Something Old, Something New where she talked about a random mishap on her wedding day. Appropriately entitled 'Happy Accidents,' the post is more about maintaining a sense of character and uniqueness at your wedding. To learn more about Mackenzie just check out her invitation company, KenzieKate, and also her interview at the Blue Orchid Blog.

Similarly, Miss Plum over at WeddingBee created a laundry list of things that went wrong, including a very sweaty groom, cutting into the styrofoam cake layer, and mismatched bridesmaid footwear.

While accidents aren't ever intended, they're usually not harmful to anyone and are most certainly memorable. These little imperfections are the reason your great aunt Maude had such a good time and why your cousin Harry can't stop talking about it. Of course as a bride your biggest challenge will be seeing past the awkward moment, deciding to deal with it later, and enjoying yourself on the day.

What are you worried about going wrong on your big day? Or if you're married, what happened that wasn't in the plan? Comment below and you could win two tickets to the Washington Bridal Showcase next weekend!